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Hilary in CA: “Happy life, not a wife”

Hilary Jacobs, 50, thought she’d married the love of her life. The school psychologist was living her dream with two beautiful children and her perfect home in Claremont, CA. But her life changed at 2 am on Thanksgiving morning, 2021, two months before her 12th anniversary. Here’s the story: “Weread more

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AM of DC says: “The next time around, I’d pay better attention to the signs and communicate more. I realize now that it’s ok to argue. I always avoided arguing in my marriage and instead shut down and gave in. So we never addressed the issues.”

She was married for 2 years when AM of Washington, DC found out her spouse had committed adultery.  “I did not discuss divorce with him until 10 years later, but the first time it crossed my mind was after the first time he cheated.” When she finally decided she wantedread more

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VV says, “I had no plans to leave my wife — until she had a torrid affair with a fireman. And then, I knew I had no choice.”

VV says: Married for 12 years before thinking about getting divorced, VV shares that he had no plans to leave his wife — until she had a torrid affair with a fireman. “After that, she had no problem with me leaving as she thought she was in love with him. Whenread more

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DDM of Virginia says, “I did not want our marriage to end, even after I found out my wife was in love with someone else.”

For 14 years, DDM felt like he was in a loving, stable marriage. Then, in November of 2014 he discovered his wife was having an affair. “I did not want our marriage to end, even after I found out my wife was in love with someone else. I wanted toread more

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Simone of New Jersey shares: “I was filled with angst — and that eventually led me to do things I knew I shouldn’t be doing.”

In my marriage, I was filled with angst — and that eventually led me to do things I knew I shouldn’t be doing. As a child, I was applauded for being the good daughter, the rule follower. Don’t have sex before you get married, marry a nice Jewish boy. I didread more